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You Are Not Your Beliefs (But You Think You Are)
Your nervous system genuinely cannot tell the difference between a threat to your physical safety and a threat to your sense of self.
Both activate the same response.
Both feel like danger.
Which is why this work — the simple act of noticing — takes more courage than most people give it credit for.
You're not just examining an idea.
You're sitting with the possibility that part of what you've called yourself might be something you picked up somewhere and never put dow
Gary Lougher
6 days ago3 min read


Who I Think I Am
Reimagining Rebellion — Week 1, Day 3 Over the past couple of days, you may have started to notice things. Small reactions. Assumptions. Patterns that usually move too quickly to see. The Next Layer Today, we take that one step further. Because some beliefs don't just shape what you think. They shape who you think you are. Identity Feels Fixed There are things you might say about yourself that feel completely true. This is just how I am. I have always been this way. This is p
Gary Lougher
Apr 142 min read
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